True purpose

So if you have never heard of the invisible children you need to look it up. Not that anybody reads this....

I met a woman who turned 78 and is super happy. So do I get to be there.  People say you make your own future I just want my future to be great and exciting.  No war No anger.

If she is as happy as she is today. Can't I be

The days i spend alone

Everyone has a day that they spend to themselves and just reflect on there week, month,year. What they have accomplished And how they want to move forward.

These days are important.  It can help you understand your self better and why you make choices. 

We all know Valentine's day is coming up and we want to be happy and in love.  I could say this "holiday" is all corporate and blown way out of proportion. But that sounds kind of a downer right.

We should have a great day and be happy and feel loved.  Go out to dinner or a good movie. Not a chick flick (ladies), let's Not put our men through a tear jerker and hope that guys pick up on the not so subtle gestures made by the main male actor.

No instead you should see a movie that you both wanna see,.and laugh together not cry.it's funny that women still need to be reminded on what guys don't want.

sooo much free time.

I think i have way to much time on my hands. after getting let go from my job ive beent rying to get babysitting job and job. and yeah its good for the moment but i would rather have a full time job that i could enjoy and could still have fun as a young girl living in the city. nothing like the show sex int he city trust me im not that type of girl or have that many girl friends.

in actuality i am so free and open minded. but a broke girl in the city counting her change int he drawer to see if she can buy bottle of body wash. or even being able to eat a meal. there are alot of job jsut laying off poeple the economy sucks and the only skill is to do hair. but does that make me any less capable to be a receptionist assistant w/e. nope but people judge by the skills you have on paper and not in the head. if a personal resume is a paper than i wanna challenge that. people with tattoos all over get judged on looks but there are soo many smart people who have tattoos. they have bachelor degrees w.e and they cant get a job cause of there looks. but a dumb blonde who has no brains but looks to bring in a crowd to a bar can get the job on the spot! society now a days is so ass backwards and its been like this for a while but it gets worse and worse each year.

from previous work experience. i have handled bitches who think they know it all on a calm and level head. those people who others would rather not handle they gave them to me to keep company in a salon. people skills check.

i also handled people who are ill and disabled. nothing you could throw at me would make me cringe or say no. others well they would say hey clare can you take that client for so and so cause i don't wanna deal with them today. i always say yes, make sure things are in order and things run smoothly.

so you take that kind of skill but if i were to put hta ton my resume people would read it as too much or an over achiever. paper is dispossable and peopel dont care what happends to it after you put it in that trash just like people.

when did people start throwing others away like paper. have we really become so disposable that soon we our selves will need to be recycled and saved. well that just sounds dirty!

oh well that's a thought to ponder. right now im gunna play with my puppy and kitty and try to capture adorable cute moments to put on face book and share how awesome they are. oh and talk to my new amazing boyfriend. sex and city marathon is good. lol

you gotta love new york!

Back in the day.....

Even after high school I would have never thought that I would live in NYC on my own, have great friends and be doing my thing. But back when I was stuck in a room with desks all lined up in a square and a teacher reading a page in a book, about something I was suposse to have read..before all of that happen. I was in middle school,  I was a little girl just happy to be going back to a public school. System. Strange right.  After boarding school, all I wanted at that time was to be home and with the friends I grew up with. In hopes that they hadn't forgotten me, since I was never very good at keeping in touch. 

And then once I got back into high school like a normal girl would. I could not wait to get out. I tried everything to get put of school, classes.  I was a good kid but was never able to sit long enough to Have the information put into my head. I wanted to be free.  Reason. Being cause I thought well, I'm not going to college why sit in high school. Anymore.

Well after I graduated I was finally able to let go. Not really.  I was ready for summer jobs and summer relaxation to begin. But my mother had other plans.

So after a long trip and fighting I moved out of small town Madison and to the big city. Like in the movies I thought haha. Nope it was to more school to more training.  Again more fighting to be free.

Now that I am. And I'm happy. I wanna have something solid....am I too young to think that way.

work and more work rite!

so i have started a new job back in the beginning of august i guess. im an assistant at a salon that is less than ten blocks from where i live now! its great. but its hard work. ive been doing well so far i work really hard and i love the staff but every now and then we have drama in the building. i mean its kind of inevitable when you work with a female dominated salon.

my schedule is Monday, Wednesday through Saturday. also on Tuesday i have an educational class in the am. but i normally work 10-8 . so long days.

but things are doing well. just non stop busy and trying to keep a social life in the big city is not easy lol especially after a ten hour shift! i end up coming home to the cat and just vegging out on the couch till 3 am and then i sleep and repeat.

nothings new other wise. same old clare trying to keep things in order and not go craZy.

Marley and Me yeah the movie

so im watching marley and me and it reminds me of kip and how crazy of a cat he is. yeah i have cought him drinking out of the toilet. and chewing threw his cat food bag to be feed, and waking me up at 5:30- 7:30 am to be feed. he is a chatty kitty. and he likes to bite. and nibble on your toes. yeah hes the cat version of Marley. yeah Ive gotten really mad and no im not planning a family. but he has so many traits of a crazy animal. that i cant wait to see what crazy new things he will be doing.

now on to other news. i met a guy who lives in NJ and im going to hang out with him on the fourth of july. and we will see what happens. we've talked on the phone a lot and we have very normal and mature conversation hahaha weird huh. nah hes a great guy and im excited

Why do emotions run high!

so i got fired from my old job and found a new one the same day! i was proud of myself in accomplishing a simple task fast. but now i have to keep my job.

so i have recently signed up for a depression study and i will be perscibed a medication to take for a year. and i get paid for it as well, im not sure though when i start because i have to pass the urine sample. they say i have a tranquilizer in my system and i have to weight 48 hours before i give another sample. its weird...and a little scary....anyways if i pass i get a prescription of an anti depressant and take it to make me feel better.

i was diagnosed depressed a while back and now i wanna see after a couiple years what has changed ive never had much consulting since i was on meds and its numbing to me now.

i wanna learn more about what i can do to make myself feel better and have a better outlook.

so now that i have a great job and have a great stability for the moment and things are going well.

but weirdly this is the longest time i havent had a boyfriend. i mean i have a bunch of guys that are great friends of mine but nothing of a pure commitment. haha i know it sounds weird but i miss having a best friend that i can confide in and get comfort from. im alone in nyc anyways its kinda sad.

i have my friend emilies college friend here staying with me for a while which is nice to have company. and we are having a good time but its not the same. I try to be independant and on my own but i see couples walk around NY all happy and i dont have that and it makes me sad.

it's emphasis that i am alone and dont have soembody to be happy with.